From The Day I Saw You

What is the difference between love and hate? Both are extreme emotions… both are filled with passion… both have just a thin line between them…

At which point does hate take over love… or love take over hate…? Can one ever tell it? Can one ever pin point the exact moment it happens?

When does an extreme emotion like hate become grudging respect, then mutual affection and then another extreme emotion – love?

Who falls in love first? Is one to understand that the person who says it first is the person who falls in love first? Or is it the person who doesn’t say it but feels it in their bones and heart?

What in fact is this word “LOVE” ? What does it mean? What does it imply? What does it do?

Is love affection? Is love respect? Is love sacrifice? Is love proximity?

OrIs love possessiveness? Is love passion? Is love anger? Is love hate?

Can one believe the concept of “love at first sight”?

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Temples At Times

Hi All,

In this blog i wanted to discuss something which is related to the sensitivity of the senseless things happening in temples...Before we go indepth in to the subject i need to pose some queries in front of you people.... First one is how many people go to temple, the answer would be many..If so the second one will be why...the answer would be beliefness in god,attracted by the spirituality,to get things done in short route...this may sound harsh one on people but its the real truth behind the whole story of the person coming to temple. I would also tell u that there are people of different characters come to this place...A query would arise in ur mind what kinda ppl would be they are???...

I would like to tell u one incident that happened. One odd day i went to temple which is nearby to my home as my mind was pretty disturbed and went there just to relax my mind. I visited that temple after an year, yes exactly after finishing a hectic project in my company...The environment was good after finishing all the duties i just sat near a tree, there was no one and the whole place was silent...Then came a huge gang of old people coming and i saw them sitting in a convinient place as of me...Almost for more than thirty minutes i was sitting there and just relaxing,at that time i got to know one thing is that, temple is not only the place to show the spirituality but a place where we can get to know about the things happening around you. These old people really ya,we think that they know nothing about the development happening in the world,but the reality is they are the store of knowledge and that too they spread it for free.. These people know things right from politics to the movies and from uncivilized to civilized age.. You ll know more about these things by listening to them rather than reading books of that kind.. Its for sure and no one can deny it... When asked them about the kind of attitude adopted by these people they say " Its not only the silence that relaxes you. You get relaxed even when u listen to something u love it " , This is not only the statement of that very old man but the answer to hundreds of question that shoots ur heart.

Now coming to the spirituality of the temple.... when thinking about the number of temple in India...Why india let us take Chennai...Why the whole chennai ya take just a small surrounding near your home...You can see atleast one in each and every street...Now a days people have started making money out of temple...Temples like this is like a small business unit...Yes a unit with no investment of ur own...the only investment is the superstitious belief of people.. I used to do analysis how this superstition has affected the people...By this way i got to know that during the reign emperors, the king used to give money to the people of his kingdom...People in that kingdom were classified according to the work they do and the king used to pay them...When all the people were getting money for the work they did, the king saw a group of people not getting money, inturn the king asked them what is the reason, the representative of that group said "we dint do and dont know to work as the other groups" so king decided to give them a job of doing prayer and do pooja for all the god and godess.. This group whenever they need money they do pooja in the name of that king and this king inturn give huge sum of money as a pleasure...This is how the superstition came into existence...Now as the development is happening in the rhethos there is more and more increase in superstitious belief in rapid phase...

The temples which we believed has high religious notes and great people whom we believe make those notes has been in soup today....I can quote the name of the temple and the name of that great man who is said to be the first man of a religion, but as this would be sensitive i dint mention it...What has happened to people who are sailing in a boat called as trust and calling themselves as trustees...these trustees have been in the process of making money in the name of god...I dont know they use it for god or for some other thing...only god knows it... Even though my sub concious says that dont tell any thing explicitly but i want to blow it out from my heart..Yes i am talking about the most rescent incident or accident happened in sabari mala...What is going on in that devaswom....this temple has its own rules and regulation and they never and ever try to break those regulations....females between the age of 10 to 55 (i dont know the exact age)are not allowed even to climb the mountain but why that the rule has not been implemented on that famous actress or some other woman who she herself doesnot deny her visit to that temple....How come these ppl inside allowed that lady to go inside that garpagruham a most precious place where lord ayyapa reside...Even a man is not allowed who undergoes a great process before he starts this pilgrimage tour...Its attrocious....I cannot believe that a ppl in sabari mala did this by getting money.....

Last but not the least i want to tell u that development of a temple is based only on the beliefness of the people and the trustees who manage the whole administration do kill those belief for a sake of a paper that has gandhijis photo and the signature of governor.

Now i know the reason why Gandhiji is always laughing in rupee notes.. It seems like he knew that people will do all these nonsense to make money:)